What Are The Pros And Cons Of Arguing? by SJ

Cons: I bet that you and probably everyone in the world has argued with someone or has seen others argue, well, let me tell you this: arguing with others is not only a waste of time but breaks relationships that could lead into more serious events in the future, like suing or divorce. Why waste time having a quarrel with someone, instead of doing things you love, like spending time with pets and family, reading a book, or playing a sport. There is much to do in life, and you aren't alive just to be fighting unwinning, costly battles . Arguing in a relationship is bad for your mindset too, you may think of ways to make your point across in unhealthy ways. While you're arguing you are always thinking of ways to prove his/her wrong and that YOUR opinion is right. However he/she may have provided a previous rebuttal and you're too busy thinking of an argument that can make that person listen to you and shut up. So really, none of you are really listening to each other, and you are just merely screaming and yelling at each other for nothing.

Pros: While arguing in life is unhealthy, not arguing isn't ideal either. Arguing can make you understand the other person better and know what kind of opinions they have, it can also provide greater trust and an even more autistic understanding.This is, however if you don't argue every single day. When you need to address an issue or problem, arguing helps you identify problems you may or may not have seen before. You may even feel lighter after an argument, because you have let out your anger and your point across. Arguing gives you opportunities to express your disappointment, how you feel, and what makes you feel this way. You will also develop life skills such as patience, kindness, and strength which will result in a better relationship with others. Argument teaches us to evaluate conflicting claims and judge decisions and methods of investigation.

In general, arguments sometimes can be a pain, and they can make your life harder, if you continue arguing with someone everyday even after you read this, but there are also benefits of having arguments that can strengthen your life skills. whenever you see your mom or dad having a strong disagreement, know that there doing that for a purpose, but maybe show them this and they'll quiet down for while.<wink, wink>